Well, it's not like we weren't expecting this to happen....
We've hit a bit of a road block. Because John did not have a sparkly clean criminal record like me (j.j.), he has to apply for a pardon. Don't worry...he did not do anything terrible...he was just a rebellious young lad with bad luck on his side!
We are waiting for word from the RCMP in Ottawa to let us know the status of his fingerprint screening so that we can move forward with the pardon application. Try getting a hold of ANYONE in Ottawa...I dare you. I have become the "squeaky wheel" that just won't go away. Hopefully someone will return one of my 50 phone messages regarding pressing the urgency on this matter! Once we get the go ahead for his pardon, it shouldn't take too much longer.........we hope. We still have our fingers crossed to get our papers to China by the end of the summer.
On a better note, our home study is finished and is now being professionally edited to prepare it to go to the Gov. Ab. for approval. So for now John and I are going to get our passports renewed and have another medical exam done...this time for the official China medical form.
They keep putting hoops in front of us and we'll keep jumping. Anything we have to do to get our little baby!
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Thursday, April 19, 2007
WHEW...!
Our Home study went very well! Carolyn (our Social Worker) was so nice...and funny, which made the whole process much easier on us. I will say though, that it was sooo very tiring. After she left yesterday I felt a wave of exhaustion rush over me. I think it was the anticipation and nervousness that I was all of a sudden washing out of my body. So we took it easy yesterday afternoon.
It's feels great to know that we have completed the biggest step of our paper chase!! woohoo! We're also one step closer to our 3rd baby! Man, what a feeling!
Anyway, Now we just have to wait a few weeks for Carolyn to complete the home study documents which will then be sent to us for review. At that point we can make amendments to it and scan it for any errors there might be. The whole thing gets checked over and over again because if there's even a small grammar mistake on it the Government of Alberta will shoot it right back at us...damn Government!
So right now we are just sitting tight and waiting for our next instructions!! :) :)
It's feels great to know that we have completed the biggest step of our paper chase!! woohoo! We're also one step closer to our 3rd baby! Man, what a feeling!
Anyway, Now we just have to wait a few weeks for Carolyn to complete the home study documents which will then be sent to us for review. At that point we can make amendments to it and scan it for any errors there might be. The whole thing gets checked over and over again because if there's even a small grammar mistake on it the Government of Alberta will shoot it right back at us...damn Government!
So right now we are just sitting tight and waiting for our next instructions!! :) :)
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
It's Homestudy Day!!!!
Our Social worker is meeting with John and I tonight, then she is returning again tomorrow to spend the morning with our family. We are excited and a little nervous! I've been picturing an interrogation room with one bright light and a lot of "on the spot" questions...but I've been told that's not how it will be.
John and I finished our own self assessment report last night...whew, that was sure a lengthy and very thorough process which took us over a week to complete! Now that it's done, we realize that it will be an important document in our adopted daughter's life. It reflects upon our life as it was, is and will hopefully be once she is a part of our family. In it we also describe the nature of our decision to adopt and the emotion that comes with the idea of blessing our family with such a special addition.
So, wish us luck!
I'll report afterward on how everything went with the home study!
John and I finished our own self assessment report last night...whew, that was sure a lengthy and very thorough process which took us over a week to complete! Now that it's done, we realize that it will be an important document in our adopted daughter's life. It reflects upon our life as it was, is and will hopefully be once she is a part of our family. In it we also describe the nature of our decision to adopt and the emotion that comes with the idea of blessing our family with such a special addition.
So, wish us luck!
I'll report afterward on how everything went with the home study!
Wednesday, April 4, 2007
Sunday, April 1, 2007
Well, A lot has been hapenning again since last time. John and I got all of the required paperwork into our agency that is needed in order for us to be assigned a social worker.
Our medicals were the last thing we had to send in. We got those done last week.
So now we have been assigned a Social Worker. She will begin our homestudy on April 17th. We do have some homework to do before she arrives though. We have to write a long and very in depth self assessment. I was told this that this is the most daunting task of the whole process (other than the wait). We are to hand our self assessment over to our Social worker when she arrives. This will help her write her report on us...so the more good things we write about ourselves the better her report will be!!! Sounds like a funny process, but whatever, we'll roll with it!
She comes to spend a few hours with just John and I on the 17th in the evening and then she will come back the next morning to spend about 4 hours with the whole family. After that she has to write her assessment on us and sent it into the Adoptions director for Alberta (Anne Sculley). Apparently it takes about 6 weeks to get authorization back from her. So Judging by all the timelines I've been told, if I had to guess, I would say we will have our dossier (group of documents) sent to China by the end of July. Here's hoping I'm right and not way out to lunch!
John and I also attended an International adoptions course over the weekend. It was Excellent! We got a lot of important informaton out of it! A family who had adopted from China last year came to speak about thier experience and answer questions for the group. When they walked in and we saw their little adopted daughter(mellissa) I got tears in my eyes. Then I looked over at John and he was grinning from ear to ear like a little kid at christmas! It was a great feeling and I can't imagine what we'll feel the first time we see our daughter, not to mention the first time we see all of our little girls together!!
Although there was a lot of positive moments during the course, it was also heartbreaking to hear about some of the things that happen to children all over the world. Leaves you with a feeling of wanting to do more to help them all...but one step at a time is all you can do I suppose...and every little step helps! It was nice to see that the room was full though! 28 couples looking to adopt meant that there would be 28 little kids saved from a life of poverty stricken orphanage life...or worse. Anyway...the course was great and left John and I feeling very excited.
One more thing that we did was we joined the I.A.F.A. (International Adoptive Families Association) This is a support network for adoptive families and adopted children. They hold special events throughout the year for the kids as well as the parents and families to be. I'm sure we will end up taking Cadie and Avery to many of the playgroups that are held. They also hold a "mom's night out" every once in a while which I would LOVE to take part in!! Any excuse to go out for some fun!!
IAFA also provides education regarding international adoption.
I'll write another post after the Social worker has finished our homestudy visits to let everyone know how it all went!
Until then.....:)
Our medicals were the last thing we had to send in. We got those done last week.
So now we have been assigned a Social Worker. She will begin our homestudy on April 17th. We do have some homework to do before she arrives though. We have to write a long and very in depth self assessment. I was told this that this is the most daunting task of the whole process (other than the wait). We are to hand our self assessment over to our Social worker when she arrives. This will help her write her report on us...so the more good things we write about ourselves the better her report will be!!! Sounds like a funny process, but whatever, we'll roll with it!
She comes to spend a few hours with just John and I on the 17th in the evening and then she will come back the next morning to spend about 4 hours with the whole family. After that she has to write her assessment on us and sent it into the Adoptions director for Alberta (Anne Sculley). Apparently it takes about 6 weeks to get authorization back from her. So Judging by all the timelines I've been told, if I had to guess, I would say we will have our dossier (group of documents) sent to China by the end of July. Here's hoping I'm right and not way out to lunch!
John and I also attended an International adoptions course over the weekend. It was Excellent! We got a lot of important informaton out of it! A family who had adopted from China last year came to speak about thier experience and answer questions for the group. When they walked in and we saw their little adopted daughter(mellissa) I got tears in my eyes. Then I looked over at John and he was grinning from ear to ear like a little kid at christmas! It was a great feeling and I can't imagine what we'll feel the first time we see our daughter, not to mention the first time we see all of our little girls together!!
Although there was a lot of positive moments during the course, it was also heartbreaking to hear about some of the things that happen to children all over the world. Leaves you with a feeling of wanting to do more to help them all...but one step at a time is all you can do I suppose...and every little step helps! It was nice to see that the room was full though! 28 couples looking to adopt meant that there would be 28 little kids saved from a life of poverty stricken orphanage life...or worse. Anyway...the course was great and left John and I feeling very excited.
One more thing that we did was we joined the I.A.F.A. (International Adoptive Families Association) This is a support network for adoptive families and adopted children. They hold special events throughout the year for the kids as well as the parents and families to be. I'm sure we will end up taking Cadie and Avery to many of the playgroups that are held. They also hold a "mom's night out" every once in a while which I would LOVE to take part in!! Any excuse to go out for some fun!!
IAFA also provides education regarding international adoption.
I'll write another post after the Social worker has finished our homestudy visits to let everyone know how it all went!
Until then.....:)
Sunday, March 18, 2007
As I was researching more about Chinese Adoptions I came across a Poem and an ancient Chinese Belief that were so touching they made me ball my eyes out!
Here they are......
The Gift of Life
I didn't give you the Gift of Life, but in my heart I know
The Love I feel is deep and real,
As if it had been so.
For us to have eachother is like a dream come true!
No, I didn't give you the Gift of Life, Life gave me the Gift of You.
an ancient Chinese belief....
When a child is born, invisible red threads extend from the child's spirit and connect to all the signifigant people who will be part of the child's life. As the child grows, the threads shorten, drawing closer those people who are destined to be together.
It's stuff like this that makes me wish we had our 3rd little daughter Already so we could give her a huge hug and kiss!
Here they are......
The Gift of Life
I didn't give you the Gift of Life, but in my heart I know
The Love I feel is deep and real,
As if it had been so.
For us to have eachother is like a dream come true!
No, I didn't give you the Gift of Life, Life gave me the Gift of You.
an ancient Chinese belief....
When a child is born, invisible red threads extend from the child's spirit and connect to all the signifigant people who will be part of the child's life. As the child grows, the threads shorten, drawing closer those people who are destined to be together.
It's stuff like this that makes me wish we had our 3rd little daughter Already so we could give her a huge hug and kiss!
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